Similarities VS Differences
Wow I can’t believe it’s like the middle of January already. This year is kind of crawling by for me but I’m not mad at it. I’ve been working on slowing down, working on being okay where I am and not needing to rush and push and do things at 110%. This space has allowed for new things to come through, new understandings, new perspectives, and for that I am grateful. I also did something to my neck that hasn’t allowed me to move as fast, exercise to my fullest, and get things done the way I usually do. In the past I would have been much more angry at this, but this time I’m quite proud of myself for doing my best to allow, surrender, accept.
So, usually after my morning routines, I sit or lie down and allow for downloads to come. Today I had this breakthrough when contemplating that dissonance that happens sometimes when I see someone who has something I want and don’t yet have. I realized that one of the things that causes this is when I search for and focus on all the things that person has that I don’t. I thought, “What if instead of this, I choose to look for and focus on the things that I do have? The similarities?” This seemed to brighten my outlook on it, and help me from going down that usual rabbit hole of self-judgment and loathing and not being good enough and never going to get where I need to be. Yes, there are differences between me and others who are in places I want to go, but perhaps those differences are what makes us all unique. The similaritiesare what is drawing me to that person in the first place, so when I feel that connection to them it means that there is something in me that is resonating with them, which means that whatever they are doing is possible for me too.
I’m going to work with this and see how it goes. Comparison is a difficult thing for me, and I know I’m not alone there. Any little bit helps, even this seemingly tiny little shift. All I gotta do is keep going, keep on keeping on, being happy where I am, staying on my own path, and knowing I am exactly where I am meant to be. And, when I am on the other side of it, accepting and loving myself anyway.
That’s all for today. Love you all so much and thanks for listening.
xx
Kat
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